2010/10/20
Dealing with People
We have to deal with difficult people in everyday life such as at home, at school, and at work. But we deal with them in different ways. No matter where we go, we will face people who are negative, people who oppose our ideas. For work, I will have difficult coworkers, makers, customers who frequently drive me crazy, so how to deal with the difficult behaviors of people is an art perfecting. However, we are the only animals blessed with intelligence and having the ability to control our emotion. So how can I do that? Sometimes it is hard to get past our own feelings of anger, so I will try to write how I feel in a letter, and then resolve to put my anger aside. After few hours I read the letter, I am surprised at how those feelings have changed. I know it is not easy, otherwise, there wouldn't be difficult people drive me crazy. But I will do my best to improve my EQ. Nowadays businesses recognize that emotional intelligence is essential to their success. In fact, EQ training can helps to improve performance, productivity, and customer relations. Many companies now use EQ tests when they are recruiting new staff. So if you want to get along with people, improve your EQ!